One of Stardew Valley's core mechanics is building relationships with NPCs. From romantic connections to neighborly bonds, the player can grow close to almost everyone in town and go from being an outsider to a real member of the community. The easiest way to win villagers' hearts is through generosity. Giving gifts, running errands posted on the bulletin board, and simply talking to people will raise their affection.
Some of Pelican Town's villagers, once befriended, are just as generous towards the player. Many will send recipes for home-cooked meals, or trinkets the player might appreciate. Here are some of the best friends the villagers can make early on in their playthrough.
Updated April 13, 2024, by Demaris Oxman: Early on in a Stardew Valley playthrough, it's important to form bonds with other villagers. Plenty of NPCs are happy to help the player on their journey to revitalize their farm, and these characters in particular provide useful recipes and send handy gifts. There are many ways to make friends with someone in Stardew Valley, from giving gifts to completing quests to spending time together at the movie theater. With the recent 1.6 update, there have been a few changes to some villagers' favorite gifts. With that in mind, here's an updated guide with more gift options, and more villagers to befriend.
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13 Jodi
Free Fertilizer Is Helpful Early On
- Birthday: Fall 11
The mother of Sam and Vincent, Jodi spends her days cooking, cleaning, and spending time with her best friend Caroline. Though she may not have a huge farm of her own, it's clear that she, like her friend, is still an avid gardener. This is evident from the letters she sends in the mail, stating that she ordered too much fertilizer and offering the extra to the player. This will be five units of either Basic Fertilizer, Quality Fertilizer, or Basic Retaining Soil. It may not seem like much, but this can be a godsend early on, when players are still just starting to collect resources. At three and seven hearts, she will also share her recipes for Calamari and Ice Cream, respectively.
Many of Jodi's best gifts are cooked dishes, so give her a break from cooking by treating her to one of her favorite homemade meals. She can usually be found in her home, out for a stroll through Pelican Town with Caroline, or attending exercise class at Caroline's house on Tuesdays.
Gifts & Quests
As with all befriendable villagers, players can give Jodi two gifts per week, plus an extra one on her birthday. Jodi's Loved gifts include:
- Diamond
- Vegetable Medley
- Chocolate Cake
- Crispy Bass
- Eggplant Parmesan
- Fried Eel
- Pancakes
- Rhubarb Pie
On Spring 19 in Year 1, Jodi will send the player a letter requesting a cauliflower for a recipe she'd like to cook. Bringing her one will grant the player 350g and one friendship heart with Jodi.
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12 Marnie
Get Recipes & Free Animal Feed
- Birthday: Fall 18
The kindly proprietor of Marnie’s Ranch proves a great friend early in the game. New players in Year 1 sometimes struggle to feed their animals, so Marnie’s gifts of free hay are a godsend. Additionally, she sends recipes at three and seven hearts respectively: Pale Broth and Rhubarb Pie.
Players can find Marnie in her shop (though not always behind the counter, to the chagrin of many). She spends Tuesdays at aerobics with Caroline and the other Pelican Town ladies, and visits the Saloon most evenings.
Gifts & Quests
If players are looking to befriend the rancher, Marnie's loved gifts include:
- Diamonds
- Pink Cake
- Farmer’s Lunch
- Pumpkin Pie
On the third of Fall in Year 1, players will receive a letter from Marnie asking for 1 bunch of Amaranth, which triggers the quest "Cow's Delight." Completing this quest will boost friendship by one heart.
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11 Lewis
Get Free Money in the Mail
- Birthday: Spring 7
It pays to be good friends with the mayor of Pelican Town — literally. The higher the player’s friendship with Lewis, the more likely he is to send them 500g from the Stardew Valley Agricultural Fund. At three and seven hearts, he sends recipes for Spaghetti and Eggplant Parmesan.
Lewis can usually be found in his Manor, at Pierre’s, or in the Saloon. As tempting as it may be, players who want to gain the Mayor's favor should avoid playing pranks on him with the Lucky Purple Shorts, since this will decrease their friendship with him.
Gifts & Quests
Lewis' Loved gifts are all relatively easy to craft, cook, or grow:
- Green Tea
- Glazed Yams
- Autumn's Bounty
- Hot Pepper
- Vegetable Medley
Players will also receive two quests that each increase friendship with Lewis by one heart:
- "Mayor's Shorts": In a letter received on Summer 3 in Year 1, Lewis asks the player to retrieve his Lucky Purple Shorts from Marnie's bedroom. The farmer must have at least two hearts of friendship with Marnie to access her room.
- "Mayor's Need": Received on Summer 21 in Year 2, this quest asks the player to bring Lewis a bottle of Truffle Oil.
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10 Caroline
Learn to Craft the Tea Bush
- Birthday: Winter 7
Befriending Caroline is the only way to get the Tea Bush crafting recipe. This allows them to grow and harvest tea leaves, which they can brew into Green Tea using a keg. This unique drink increases the player's maximum energy. At three and seven hearts respectively, she also shares recipes for some simple and restorative meals: Parsnip Soup and Vegetable Medley.
Find Caroline at home in her room or the kitchen, or spending time with Jodi in the gardens or near the fountain.
Gifts & Quests
It's no surprise that Caroline loves Green Tea, but there are a few other items players can give her to win her friendship. Her Loved gifts include:
- Fish Tacos
- Tropical Curry
- Summer Spangle
- Green Tea
Caroline has one quest, "Carving Pumpkins," in which she sends the player a letter on Fall 19 in Year 1 asking for a pumpkin to carve for the upcoming Spirit's Eve festival. Bringing her the gourd will increase friendship by one heart.
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9 Robin
Learn to Craft Special Home Decor
- Birthday: Fall 21
Once she and the player become good friends, Robin will teach the player some carpentry secrets. At six hearts, if the player enters her home while she is there, a cutscene will play in which she teaches the player to craft Flute Blocks and Drum Blocks. She may also send the player 50 pieces of wood in the mail. At seven hearts, she'll share a recipe for Pumpkin Soup, which buffs Luck and Defense by +2 each.
Robin's can be found in her shop most days, or the Stardrop Saloon in the evenings. On Tuesdays, she'll be at Caroline's aerobics meet-up.
Gifts & Quests
Robin only has a few Loved gifts, but luckily, none of them are too difficult to come by:
- Goat Cheese
- Peach
- Spaghetti
- Woody's Secret (book)
Robin also has two side-quests that raise friendship with the player by one heart each:
- "Robin's Lost Axe": Received in the mail on Spring 11 in Year 1, this quest asks the player to find Robin's axe in Cindersap Forest.
- "Robin's Request": Received in the mail on Winter 21 in Year 1. Bring Robin 10 pieces of Hardwood to complete this quest.
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8 George
Learn to Cook Lucky Dishes
- Birthday: Fall 24
The recipes that George sends the player both provide Luck boosts. This buff proves useful in almost every aspect of the game, from fishing to foraging to mining. Like most villagers, he sends these recipes once the player reaches three and seven hearts: Fried Eel and Spicy Eel.
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Though he might seem like a grumpy old coot, George isn't actually too hard to befriend. His Loved gifts are easy to obtain, and remind George that people do care about him. Bring gifts or quest items to George's home, where he's usually in front of the TV.
Gifts & Quests
George only has two Loved gifts (aside from the Universal Loves) but fortunately, they are easy to forage and to cook:
- Leek
- Fried Mushroom
On the 25th of Summer in Year 1, George will send the player a letter, initiating the quest "Knee Therapy." Bring him a Hot Pepper for his aching joints, and friendship with George will increase by one heart.
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7 Willy
Learn Lots of Recipes to Boost the Fishing Skill
- Birthday: Summer 24
While most NPCs share two cooking recipes at most, Willy has four that he sends the player at three, five, seven, and nine friendship hearts. Unsurprisingly, all of his "ol' pappy's" recipes boost the Fishing skill. This makes them useful for completing the community center fish tank, catching legendary fish, or completing quests that require fishing prowess. The recipes, in the order received, are:
- Chowder
- Escargot
- Fish Stew
- Lobster Bisque
Look for Willy fishing at the docks, behind the counter in his shop, or grabbing a drink at the saloon.
Gifts & Quests
Willy loves rare treasures, a few homegrown items, and some hard-to-catch fish. Judging by the recipes he sends the player, he might like having fresh ingredients — or maybe he's pleased to have a friend who loves fishing as much as he does. His Loved gifts include:
- Diamond
- Iridium Bar
- Mead
- Pumpkin
- Catfish
- Sea Cucumber
- Octopus
- Sturgeon
- Jewels of the Sea (book)
- The Art O' Crabbing (book)
Willy sends the player two quests by mail, which boost friendship by one heart each:
- "Catch a Squid": Received on Winter 2 in Year 1, this quest is self-explanatory. Hook one of these sea creatures and bring it to Willy for him to admire. The player will get to keep the fish after Willy examines it.
- "Catch a Lingcod": Received on Winter 13 in Year 2, the objective here is much the same; catch a Lingcod in the mountain lake.
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6 Clint
Get Restorative Recipes & Free Crafting Materials
- Birthday: Winter 26
In his letters, Clint sends the player a copper, iron, or gold bar. During Year 1, these can prove to be invaluable crafting resources. Clint also sends his recipes for Algae Soup and Bean Hotpot at three and seven hearts. The former is a great way to convert a plentiful ingredient into useful energy, while the latter boosts maximum energy and only requires a few green beans to make.
Drop by the blacksmith shop to chat with Clint, or catch him grabbing a drink at the Saloon.
Gifts & Quests
Many of Clint's favorite gifts can be found in the mines, but he has a few favorite foods as well.
- Gemstones: Aquamarine, Amethyst, Emerald, Ruby, Topaz, Jade
- Gold Bar
- Iridium Bar
- Omni Geode
- Artichoke Dip
- Fiddlehead Risotto
The blacksmith has two quests that raise friendship:
- "Clint's Attempt": On Winter 6 in Year 1, Clint asks the player to bring an amethyst to Emily, and tell her it's from him.
- "A Favor For Clint": On Winter 17 in Year 1, Clint sends the player a letter asking them to bring him an Iron Bar.
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5 Pam
Sends Surprisingly Useful Items
- Birthday: Spring 18
Pam's letters sometimes just include a mug of beer. However, she may send the player a battery pack, useful in crafting. Even better, she sometimes sends Energy Tonic, which restores 500 energy and 200 health. She also sends the player recipes for Cheese Cauliflower and Stuffing. The latter's defense buff proves especially useful for fighting monsters.
Players can find Pam in the Saloon, or at the bus stop if it has been repaired.
Gifts & Quests
As players might suspect, Pam loves most alcoholic drinks in Stardew Valley, but she has other Loved gifts as well:
- Beer
- Mead
- Pale Ale
- Pina Colada
- Parsnip
- Glazed Yams
- Parsnip Soup
- Cactus Fruit
Pam also has two quests, which she will send to the player via letters in the mail:
- "Pam Needs Juice," received Summer 14 in Year 1.
- "Pam Is Thirsty," received Fall 19 in Year 2.
Both of these are simple item-fetch quests that raise friendship by 1 heart each. Bring Pam a Battery Pack for the first, and a Pale Ale for the second.
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4 Emily
Easy Recipes & Valuable Gifts
- Birthday: Spring 27
Once befriended, Emily may send the player cloth and wool. These are hard to find early in the game, and the player can use them to make new clothes or build a mill. Emily will also give the player her recipes for Salad and Red Plate, meals that require few ingredients but restore lots of energy.
Emily is usually at home sewing or shopping at Pierre's during the day, before she heads to work at the Saloon at 4pm.
Gifts & Quests
Emily's Loved gifts include:
- Gemstones: Amethyst, Aquamarine, Emerald, Topaz, Jade, Ruby
- Cloth
- Wool
- Survival Burger
For her quest "Fresh Fruit," received on Spring 6 of Year 2, bring Emily an Apricot to increase friendship by 1 heart.
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3 The Wizard
Unlock Extra Gameplay Features
- Birthday: Winter 17
Though he doesn't send any recipes, the items the Wizard sends in the mail are pretty valuable, including gemstones and purple mushrooms. The latter restores large amounts of health and energy, making them invaluable for mining expeditions. At four hearts, the player can access his basement to change their appearance.
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To win over this mysterious figure, try bringing him one of the gifts listed below. He can be found in his tower all day throughout all seasons, so it's not hard to track him down.
Gifts & Quests
The Wizard's Loved gifts are hard to come by, and according to him, have powerful arcane properties:
- Purple Mushroom
- Super Cucumber
- Void Essence
- Solar Essence
- Book of Mysteries
The Wizard has two quests that result in a 1-heart friendship increase:
- "A Dark Reagent": On Winter 12, the Wizard will send a letter asking the player for one Void Essence.
- "Staff of Power": On Winter 5 in Year 2, the Wizard announces via mail that he is building a staff, and asks for one Iridium Bar to complete it.
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2 Gus
The Saloon Owner Keeps Players Well-Fed
- Birthday: Summer 8
Once befriended, the proprietor of the Stardrop Saloon sends the player free food in the mail. This is especially useful early in the game, when the player expends lots of energy chopping trees and breaking rocks. Some of these meals increase Foraging or Fishing skills, or provide extra energy. Players obtain the recipes for Salmon Dinner and Cranberry Sauce from Gus at three and seven hearts respectively.
Gus is easy to find; simply drop by the Stardrop Saloon for a quick chat and to offer a gift.
Gifts & Quests
Unsurprisingly, the way to Gus's heart lies with delicious food, as the following are his Loved gifts:
- Tropical Curry
- Escargot
- Fish Taco
- Orange
- Diamond
Gus has three quests that increase friendship, each related to new recipes he wants to make.
- "Fish Stew": On Winter 26 in Year 1, Gus requests an Albacore to make fish stew.
- "Wanted: Lobster": On Fall 6 in Year 2, Gus asks the player to bring him a Lobster.
- "Exotic Spirits": On Winter 19 in Year 2, Gus wants a Coconut to make a drink at the saloon.
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1 Linus
The Kindhearted Hermit Shares His Fishing Secrets
- Birthday: Winter 3
Though he may be an outsider, Linus is one of the best friends the player can have. Once the player earns his trust, he teaches them his recipe for Wild Bait, massively increasing fishing potential. He'll also send fresh fish, sashimi, or maki rolls in the mail, in addition to recipes players can make with their fishing spoils: Sashimi and Fish Tacos.
Linus isn't hard to befriend, as his Liked and Loved gifts are easy to find through foraging. Players will usually find Linus in his tent, or wandering the nearby wilderness.
Gifts & Quests
Linus is a simple man; his Loved gifts include his favorite foods:
- Cactus Fruit
- Coconuts
- Dish O' The Sea
- Blueberry Tart
- Yam
- The Alleyway Buffet (book)
On Fall 8, Linus will send the player a letter telling him that he lost his blackberry basket while foraging for the fall fruits. Returning it to him will earn the player one friendship heart.
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